The songs on Lady Gaga's The Fame Monster album represent a "fear" of some "monster." That is why it is very important to routinely remind your girlfriend that you find her attractive and that you care about her.It is vital to be loving and caring, so never miss a chance to tell you woman how beautiful she is and how much you admire her. Do you think a wife has a similar responsibility for her husbands pleasure, or is it enough that she just brings him to orgasm in the most efficient(quickest) way possible. This is an opportunity to serve and to see the pleasure you can bring your wife, and that’s a good thing, not a bad thing!What happens when you've got a problem with sex--but it's just so convoluted and messy? Perhaps you’ll consider changing your prayer from “God, please show us how we can experience all the pleasures of married intimacy” to “God, guide us on the journey that is unique to us. Comments that condone pornography or that are hateful towards people's faith will not be allowed. And he was becoming sad, because he felt like we were saying that it’s his responsibility to make sure that she feels good.So today Rebecca and I tackled this in our podcast!

I now believe in the latter, and it has taken my marriage to new heights, not just for me but also for my husband now too, who also seems to be stepping up to the plate more as a husband now that I’m not just whimpering in the corner trying to be a more submissive/godly wife (which I’m not naturally. If your relationship is new, then you want to tell her this every moment of every day. Honestly, as you point out regularly, it is generally pretty easy for a healthy man to reach an orgasm. (First, if you have any suggestions on motivating a husband to read similar books, I am all ears! And we talk all the time about what works for us and what doesn’t feel so good. For some women, this really might not be as easy as you think. Education before marriage and good communication with your partner are important.

Making a woman feel loved and beautiful gives her that glow that only love can forge.When you see your love come walking down a flight of stairs, do you delight in the sight of her? The world tells us that you need to get experience and try someone out before getting married but that’s silly – you have plenty of time to get experience when you are married. The goal is not to have a woman have a man’s libido all through the month; the goal is for the couple to work together to learn how to make her feel good wherever she is in her cycle. My nose isn’t small enough, my eyes are too small…” We could just go on and on with all the imperfections we notice in ourselves.Women are even more prone to feel conscious about their appearance. That one compliment is an important part of making your partner feel desirable and loved.Women generally want their partners to show interest in what they feel, and for them to show how they are cherished. We are learning together and it’s amazing! I think an orgasm is a great thing, but I don’t think that having an orgasm means that the sex was great, or even necessarily good.

I will pray that God will also give encouragement to you and your wife in a way that shows his unique love for you.This podcast is in response to my comment and I want to make a few clarifications. Images via Getty Images.Rekindling Romance eKit--Printables to Make Your Marriage Sizzle! If Christians believe that a woman has some say over her own body in her marriage and, thus, her own sexuality, then yes, it is up to her to come to a healthy understanding of her sexuality and how that manifests itself in her marriage. 0:30. some pre show bass face comin in hot!! No man is going to just lie still and let sex happen without actively trying to make sure he gets the appropriate stimulation.